Welcome to the dark side.

I posted my first blog on this site in 2019. During COVID, it turned into my creative outlet.
Then... life got crazy.
Life is still crazy, but the blog has been calling. If you have found this page...
Welcome. You have found the Dark Nebula.
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I am Back
I am BACK. Although I never really left. I had just put a piece of myself deep down into an internal dungeon. I did so for what I believe to be out of necessity. I thought that by being my full self, I could not achieve success. The truth is that I could not achieve success in the environment I was in and rather than looking to change my environment, I chose to change myself. The kicker? It worked. I was able to play the game and thrive. Partly because…
The Dark Archive
These posts are from the original blog which started during COVID.
I am Right and You Are Wrong, Deal with It
This is one of the hardest things to teach or do. Teaching it as a boss / co-worker, coach or dad requires patience and your own execution. Our brain is a crazy place; or, at…
I, Coach Urgo, Am A Drug Addict
If you are not a competitive person, you are going to read this blog post and probably identify with five percent or less of what I am about to say. I, Coach Urgo, Am A…
I am Waiting For a Call From Discovery Channel, Nat Geo or The History Channel to Start My Career
I Can Be an Expert TV Scientist Too I am now that age where I can say “back in my day”. Back in my day, we did actual science. You know, where you create a…
I Stand Against Cruelty to Animals
Will you stand with me? Every day, there are good boys and good girls who watch tv with their families. My good boy’s name is Ollie and he is a very good boy. Just look…
What Kind of Ammo Do You Load Into Your Parenting Gun?
*Disclaimer* I am not a parenting expert. These are just my thoughts on what I think works. So. Chill. Now. Guns and kids don’t typically mix, unless… you’re a Nerf Gun fan. But, if you…